In the age of instant messaging and social media, boundaries are often tested—and sometimes crossed. Recently in Cotonou, an incident involving a man allegedly sending an unsolicited image of an intimate part of his body to a well-known female event promoter ignited widespread discussion online and offline.While details continue to circulate largely through social media commentary, the situation has drawn attention not because of salacious content, but because of what it represents: digital misconduct, consent, and respect in online communication.What Happened (Without the Sensationalism)According to reports shared across platforms, the female promoter—popular for her work in entertainment and nightlife promotion—received a private message containing a highly
inappropriate image she did not request or consent to receive. The message reportedly came from a man who was neither invited nor encouraged to engage in such a manner.The promoter chose not to remain silent. By speaking up, she turned a private violation into a public conversation about harassment, boundaries, and accountability in digital spaces
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